so u wanna or rather have to report to the call of duty?!
seriously, if u dun like her, just make it clear u're only
friends... it's worse to lead her on cos of politeness, duty and
watever shit theory u have... hurt her ego now, rather than break
her heart later...
ppl likes u, it's THEIR issue, not urs... there's no duty to
it.... if every one likes me i have to oblige, i think i sibeh bz
and tired lor >.<
well ... I mean there's a duty of care involved .... people are
placing their hearts in your hands after all ... whether you want
it or not ... it's something precious and fragile from someone
..... 
and it's not that I don't "like" her or anything .... just that
well. .. I dunno what to make of it ... as I said ... I drink too
much, I smoke, I have man boobs and a beer gut, I'm balding ....

makes you wonder if there's lunacy involved ... 